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The Truth About Hiring House Help

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She says she would like to talk to talk to me for a minute. She's pausing at the top of the dining room stairs, broom in hand, and she's smiling, but her expressive eyes show that the smile is a cover for her nervousness, her embarrassment.**

She just started working for me 2 months ago. I didn't want to hire her. I'm tired of teaching new house helpers the ways of western households. I'm tired of resorting things when they are put away wrong. I'm tired of the damage to clothes and appliances because they are learning, and don't understand what I say about separating colors and using bleach. They don't just leave the door open because they don't understand that it keeps out disease causing mosquitoes, but because culturally, a closed door is just an oddity. It keeps out good luck, and good neighbors.

I'm tired of mosquitoes in my house.

I'm tired of wet dishes being put away, and damp clothes folded and sorted into the wrong shelves in the w…

After 4 years in Thailand - Some Thoughts

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Four years ago today we stepped off a plane into the warm muggy Chiang Mai heat and began a new chapter in our lives.  
I meant to document more. Tell more stories here. I thought I would fill these pages with descriptions of our days and adventures.

Most of the time I don't know where to begin, who I'm talking to anymore. I can't tell a joke I'm thinking of. No one in the US would get it. I can't tell that story, without a long explanation, because if you haven't been here, you won't understand.
I thought I understood, before we left, what I was getting us all into. I might have had better preparation than most. My husband had been coming here for years. I read the books, did the research, talked to people who lived here.
I didn't understand. Some things can only be gained by experience.
People ask me how they can prepare for culture shock, coming here. "You can't." I tell them. "I wouldn't be a shock that way."


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