life with short people

Some days…

Some days being a mother is standing in the kitchen on tired legs making dessert for children who have asked for it. Some days it’s not reading a bedtime story and instead helping them see all the things they should have seen earlier, when they were supposed to be cleaning […]

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I’m not looking forward to this

Dear Bam Bam, It’s time to wean you. And not only because twice in the last 2 days you have clamped down tight on my nipple with your full set of teeth, just as you were entering dreamland, and bit me so hard it made me cry. It’s not because […]

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Bam Bam is 2!

Dear Bam Bam, Ever suave, sharing drinks with the ladies. ’cause he’s a ladies man, who likes wearing their shoes. Well, you made it. You have moved past babyhood and you are now a little boy. Of course, you’re a little boy who doesn’t yet say more than a handful […]

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I am a P_nis Whisperer

Bam Bam has recently discovered his boy parts, in that way that makes diaper change time into magical play time. A little boy plays with his ball Parenting books do not tell you that your boy child will, from birth, occasionally have a response that makes a mother feel the […]

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Is your story big enough?

How one parents seems to be directly linked to ones expectations of parenting, family life, and the world in general. You may have noticed it. A parent will talk about the sibling fighting, the way they are mean to each other, in a tone that betrays that this is just […]

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The Mythical Self

There is a huge amount of conversation on my post at blogher, you may remember it, about my choice to stay with Bam Bam instead of take off for a few days for a birthday party. Among the many other themes in the comments are those women very kindly warning […]

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Little is 5!

Dear Little, I’m not sure how this happened. You are still my baby girl, yet so big, yet so little, yet so much a small child, but sometimes not. You are a girl in transition is what you are. You still ask every night if you can sneak into my […]

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Of the Father’s Love Begotten

After a super fun day of preparing for and hosting the girl’s double, we were both born the week before Christmas, birthday party, I was telling Brenda that I had wanted to make a video for Neil Kramer’s Annual Blogger Christmahanukwanzaakah Online Holiday Concert. But since the deadline for entries […]

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St. Nicholas Day – How our family deals with Santa Claus

If you’ve been reading here a long time you would know that we try to avoid the standard commercialism of the Christmas season. [Ideas for a non Commercial Christmas] We don’t exchange Christmas gifts, for example. We try to find a way that our family can be a gift to […]

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DIY Lord of the Rings Costumes

The young hobbit inscribes his sword with elvish runes.  Our family has never really done much for Halloween, but ever since our church started throwing this great masquerade party every year we’ve started dressing up for it. This year the kids started planning costumes a month ago and I kept […]

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